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Meeting the “Gypsy King” and his people

Roma Kids in Soroca (Moldova)

The most what Hanna liked was jewelery and golden teeth. We liked the most smiling eyes and real family feelings. Warm soup, freshly baked cake and sweet cherries to take with us. Not much time is needed to get through social structures: from talking with kids to drinking with the “king”.

Soroca, on the north of Moldova is well known from being the Roma “capital” of Moldova. Above the town: the hill with shining roofs. Shining roofs of huge houses, being build for years, piece by piece. Because what is really important for Roma people – is to have a representative house, best with sculptures, columns or glittering copulas.

Not difficult to find this bright hill in Soroca. On the hill: only one small shop with ice cream (it’s really hot!). And no “others”. Black hair, amazing-eyes girls in the gardens, and boys with good watches and expensive (-ly looking) belts.

Standard of their life seems to be completely opposite of life of Roma we met until now, in our countries. Those houses, cars, white shirts. In the downtown of Soroca we heard two explanations of this situation: selling horses and/or drug trafficking.

Getting into the neighborhood, especially with Hanna, is really easy for us. She is our key to people’s hearts – everybody is just stopping, smiling and… that is enough to start the talk.

From kids to the king
The Moldovan King of the Roma (King Arthur)Small girls with colored nails comparing Hanna to Hanna Montana. Small boys having no idea about the internet but showing us houses and view over the Dniester river. Then their place overtake youth talking about drugs (what can be cooler than mentioning that you know all the prices and sources..?). And then Vasil is coming, maybe 50 years old man, which knows everybody on the hill. Including the wife of the king. And from the wife of the king, as everybody knows, it is very close to the king. That’s how in one hour we cross few big steps in society structures and end up drinking wine with the king.

“The Gypsy King” is actually the Gypsy Baron of Moldova (and has five other titles on his business card). Arthur Cherari is standing on the top of the structure since 1998. In that year his father, who was the king of all Soviet Union Roma, died.

– Now there is democracy, our king is not anymore telling what to do – Igor, 20, tries to explain the system. – He is rather advicing and helping to find solutions where there is a problem. Like a judge.

Even while having really diverse language and cultural habits around the world all the Roma have as one of the main rule: respecting the authority (can be the king, baron or simply the elderly).

Everybody has to stand up then Arthur is coming out of the house. He has big, white, Santa Claus like bear, glasses and very friendly eyes. Speaks 7 languages, likes shooting, playing piano and collecting porcelain (some exhibits are worth 30 000 euros, as he likes to mention). He continues talking about studies and languages, adoring Hanna and asking for more and more pictures with her.

He has 3 kids and 4 grandchildren, for one of them he would like to buy Hanna from us (this is the tradition, that the family of the guy pay to the family of the girl when they want him to marry her).

Hanna, our “Gypsy baby”, finds herself perfectly in this group. Taken from arms to arms, happy about playing with all the jewelery (and she wanted to take away golden teeth of women!!)

Feels like home

We get soup, freshly baked cake and sweet cherries, even for taking away. And alcohol. That is the difficult part of the day, because all the guys wants to drink with Tom. And we want to come back to Chisinau the same evening. So I’m emptying his glasses of wine and vodka. Girls are laughing, men don’t really know how to react.

– Here is your bag, with all documents and money inside – Arthur winks to me at the end. We go out through garden, where two old Czajka cars are standing (the “Russian Rolls-Royce”). One of them with a hole after shooting on the front glass. We can’t really find out how did this happen, if it is not just a small, meaningful joke at the end.

Dreams

Vasil showing us Roma houses in Soroca (Moldova)– And my biggest dream is to be rich – Vasil wants to show us houses he is dreaming about. They are being built for many many years, starting with huge roof, columns or sculptures (horses, lions, eagles). The owners are working abroad and coming to Soroca from time to time to build again a bit of their dream house. We watch with Vasil houses with bricks from Montenegro, balcony from Saint Petersburg or stone vasas from Kiev. What does it mean that those parts are from those places? Vasil as an answer move his hand in very understandable stealing move. – So you will not join the wedding tonight? – he asks for don’t know which time at the end.

Ah, and one more thing! The wife of the “king” foretold us 4 kids: 2 girls and 2 boys!


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8 Comments

  • agata
    Posted June 9, 2010 at 14:41 | Permalink

    ale haneczka szczesliwa

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  • ania
    Posted June 10, 2010 at 21:30 | Permalink

    artur jest niezly – tez bylismy jego goscmi. jego zona chciala nam powrozyc, ale w koncu nic z tego nie wyszlo :) lepiej nie znac przyszlosci, hihihi. ale koniak i arbuz byl! no i zdjecia tez!
    pozdrowienia
    ania i piotrek

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  • anna.alboth
    Posted June 11, 2010 at 08:50 | Permalink

    Aniu, ja nie zdazylam zareagowac i juz mialam wywrozone ;)

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  • Ilaria
    Posted June 13, 2010 at 13:48 | Permalink

    such an amazing adventure….!!!I wish I met the king!!!!
    I want to see you with four children…you should buy a bus to travel, then!!

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  • anna.alboth
    Posted June 17, 2010 at 21:54 | Permalink

    Bus, haha! Not bad idea. Anybody has a bus to sell? ;)

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  • Posted June 27, 2010 at 18:36 | Permalink

    today i was in Soroca and met the king on my own.
    A realy nice guy i have to say…

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  • Om
    Posted June 1, 2014 at 11:35 | Permalink

    I liked all information about Roma of Maldova and Great king. I am from India and in contact with Roma since 1973-74 from Eastern Europe and England.I have prepared 8 post cards depicting Roma culture and dance. On getting postal address I will like to send a set.Now I am painting Roma all over the world with map and will like to show King and King’s House on the hill top on painting,hope you permit. with best wishes, Om Prakash Joshi

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  • Bernardo La Cour
    Posted August 19, 2016 at 15:32 | Permalink

    Sir,
    I saw on the television that the Roma people in Moldova are not getting social assistance because they cannot pay a fee to the government. Please send me more information about this issue.

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